Essa The Dragon
Sep 8, 2018 · 5 min read

Lesson 8 “Naomied”

There will be some snakes that have top notch camouflage. There will be some people who are so good at being fake you’d think they could make a career out of it. Once you see their true colors, do not try and paint them over.

This dear clique queen friend that I’ve mentioned in previous lessons, was of the sort. In our last days of friendship, she had fucked with my money, my career and my self-worth. One thing people should know about me is that I can easily get over insults and disrespect regarding my personal life, because I don’t expect people to understand that I don’t deem having a filter to be necessary, some people need to hear the goddamn truth. With regards to my career and my money, I have worked EXTREMELY hard to get to where I am today, and if anyone should dare think that they can shake me in that category, I will throw that bitch like a party.

This girl, (I’m calling her a girl because no self-respecting woman would do this to another woman who’s done nothing but look out for her and have her back) had her sister and I plan a holiday for the festive season. In her normal selfish ways she claimed to be far too busy to help out with the difficult parts of planning, as if the rest of us didn’t have 24 million other errands to run. She had this boyfriend who was the definition of a moron, and I had received numerous phone calls of her sobbing over the phone and multiple stories where he proved himself to be a real cunt. Although she proved herself to be a cunt too, so they deserve each other. This boyfriend of hers wanted a 5-star vacation yet didn’t have a 5-star job where he could even dream of such. Fucking Moron. He also told me over the phone he was going to cancel his flight (both of them are studying in America) after I told the both of them I’m not joining them at the museums I’ve already been to. Another thing about me is, I’m not going to hold candle for you, the fuck, if you want to parade around museums with your boyfriend, you do that, Im a beach kind of girl so I’ll be there on the beach with a cocktail and you can holla at me when you’re done. Jeez, even when I’m typing this and thinking about the both of them, I can’t believe that I put up with their shit for so long.

The problem with her was that she never grew out of that “clique queen” mentality. Sometimes I even felt like telling her that this was real life and not high school. She thinks when she says “jump”, everyone must leap like a fucking frog. No, my dear.

Karma is a bitch though. In her first year at varsity overseas, she was bullied. I don’t know how bad it was, but I hope those American women educated her on what it was like to be a victim. The tables turned, i hear it shook her whole existence. Its actually sad, she could’ve been so much more, but she chose to be the same fake, basic, selfish cunt she’s always been. I have no idea why it took me so long to see this.

I argued with her about her boyfriend, about her lack of gratitude, about her general “I think I’m the Queen of England” attitude, and when I say I have no filter, I mean I have no filter. If people want sugarcoating, they can go to a donut factory. Anyway bookings had already been made, so I just decided to work on that holiday, so I would see her and her boyfriend as little as possible. She wanted to cancel bookings and rebook things but couldn’t do it her goddamn self. My boss wanted to know exactly where I was staying so she could place me accordingly. And there this bitch was, giving me unnecessary stress. Given the multiple changes of bookings, my boss became quite irritated with me, and although we continue to have a great work relationship, at the time these events made me appear to be unreliable.

At the end of all this, Trip Advisor needed to refund money and all of us where waiting on that, but she thought she deserved favors and came to me to ask if I could pay for her new booking, which was about10k. I regret being so nice, genuinely the girl doesn’t deserve half of anything that I’ve done for her. The booking was only taking credit cards, so I asked my parents if I could use theirs and Id EFT them the amount. She was in the country at the time and came to my house for me to make this payment for her and was bitterly polite. It just shows you that some people will do anything and go to any lengths to get you to do what they want you to, and after that they go back to being their disgusting selves. The car she came in broke down, and my family and I even jump started it for them. We should’ve made her call the AA. I think one of the only reasons I was so nice about the situation was because of her family, she has a wonderful sister who doesn’t deserve even 1% of the things she goes through and a younger brother who will without doubt thrive in life, I was just stupid enough to have her as a friend for 20 years. Although I’ve experienced more bad than good with this girl, I’ve learned a lot from her, and ever since that friendship ended, I have been blessed with the friends from my bloody dreams. It would seem that God was waiting for me to take out the trash, before he could bring in the real Goods…

The girl still owes me 2k to this day. When I asked her to pay me back, she threw a hissy fit and said her family would sort it out. I told her that I felt sorry for her, and everything she was experiencing was her karma. Well of course she didn’t like that. She had previously told me she’d lost respect for me because of all the things I’d said to her, and I find that ironic, because I’m the one person she should have a great deal of respect for, not only for putting up with bullshit and still helping her out when she had proven herself over and over again to not be deserving of my kindness, but mainly because I was the one person who told her the truth. She couldn’t handle it though, the truth hurts. She blocked me on Instagram , and I know its because I’m one of the few people who knows that what she portrays to everyone else is a complete lie, and that grinds her titties.

Don’t get “Naomied”.

Do not allow people to manipulate you, do not allow people to use you, do not allow people to take you for a fool, do not allow anyone to compromise anything that you have worked hard for.

And if you see a snake, chop that bitches head off before she bites you.

Essa The Dragon

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