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All of that sounds great! The key, though, I think, is that it’s what you wanted. It’s a choice you made, not one you felt shoved into by unfair expectations or lack of alternatives. If someone tells you you have to sew your kids’ clothes from scratch and kill snakes in the yard, that can feel like you’ve been sentenced to gulag; if it’s a decision you make, it can feel empowering.

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