How different afterlife scenarios would affect society.

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As Stephen Hawking said, “the brain is just a computer, and there is no heaven or afterlife for broken down computers.” It sounds like a reasonable explanation and an interesting scenario, but what if he was mistaken? Maybe God exists. Maybe we’ll reincarnate after death. Or maybe, we’ll indeed disappear in the dark nothingness. We have no idea.

Would it truly be better to know the answer? Imagine a world where science already figured out what happens after we die, and we know all the answers.

And God Said, “Let There be Light”

After years of research, imagine scientists have confirmed the existence of God. Surprisingly, most…


Lessons from one of the most influential hippies of the 20th century.

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John Lennon was the co-founder of The Beatles, and one of the most influential singers of the 20th century. He was an artist, musician, composer, poet, peace activist, and philosopher. His art exceedingly impacted people all over the world and is still enthralling.

Besides providing a glimmer of inspiration, reading and implementing his teachings can, I believe, lead to meaningful and long-lasting changes in one’s life. He has drawn upon essential values to living a purposeful life by contemplating the importance of consciousness, self-love, support, failing, burn-out, happiness, love, patience, and flow.

His wise words stand to guide all of…


Because women’s pleasure matters there too

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Porn is recently the most searched topic on the whole internet. Did you know that 1 in 5 mobile searches are for pornography? Are you aware of the fact that one-third of all internet traffic accounts for porn? Or that PornHub is among the top 10 most visited sites, globally?

To be honest, I’m quite concerned about mainstream porn. PornHub, the leader of the industry, took an alarming direction as for their content and actors.

Let me ask you a question at this point.

Are you completely sure that the porn you consume is legit and ethical? Are you certain…


Is that why they’re the happiest nation in the world?

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How would you react if you had to face death right now?

Would you regret not living your life fully, filled with love and meaning? Would you feel frightened because of missing out on something? Would you regret wasting so much time and effort on insignificant conflicts? And most importantly, would you feel disappointed because of never really living in the present moment?

Or would you be nostalgic and content?

I asked myself these questions shortly after my grandma passed away. At that time, I haven’t seen her for months, because I had already started university, abroad.

I clearly remember…


Top students know how to get more done in less time.

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Productivity is the shortcut to living a life filled with freedom. A life where leisure time is the unnegotiable part of your daily routine.

But most people seem to ignore the power of productivity and keep working for long hours ineffectively.

They waste their working time and end up doing longer shifts. They might even neglect their families and hobbies.

If you ever feel like you cannot proceed with your tasks, keep procrastinating, and do a lot of overtime, it’s likely you keep repeating the wrong practices when it comes to working.

Students — and especially top students — seem…


The science and evolution of power play

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Why do so many people get excited about the mere thought of power play, handcuffs, and spanking?

If you ever feel weird or curious about your (or your friends’) cravings, it’s likely because you haven’t immersed yourself into the diversity of the subject yet.

Feeling ununderstood and keeping secrets about your cravings from your partner is very hard. And yes, society is still not too tolerant towards this kind of kink.

But even though others might be judgmental, wouldn’t it be better to know the ‘why’?

Because once you understand the kink's psychological reasons, it will become easier to accept…


If applied, these fundamental principles can change your whole sex life.

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Rupi Kaur is an Indian-born artist living in Canada who can easily be considered the ‘poet of the decade’. Her poems are known for their genuinely honest and powerful depictions of sexuality, relationships, traumas, and immigration. The poet has continuously questioned the status-quo and has positively affected millions of people around the world.

The following quotes from her helped me along the way to experiencing intimate, pleasurable, and safe sexuality. Maybe you’re one of the lucky ones who already has all of this in life. Then the quotes should induce a glimmer of intimate gratitude, which is remarkably great.

If…


From sensual lyrics to pulsing rhythms

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The right music can set the perfect atmosphere for sex and make this sweet pleasure more intimate, loving, and exciting.

After a hard day when I’m thirsting for sexuality, but my thoughts are just not getting out of my head, these sultry songs always do the trick and help me relax.

The following 10 songs are perfect to have sex to, and with them, I can entirely indulge in sensuality.

Cigarettes After Sex — Heavenly

Everything from this band sounds ultra sultry and erotic. I suspect the songs were basically created for having sex. In fact, they are referred to as being ‘erotic lullabies.’

The…


Here are the exact strategies I apply whenever I refuse to consume social media for 30 days (and the benefits).

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“How much of your life can we get you to give us?” — The Social Dilemma

I finished another ‘30 days without social media’ round, and I feel refreshed. Sometimes I decide to disappear from the addictive world of digital connectedness. Not radically forever, but for a considerable amount of time, for 1 or 2 months. I can easily allow myself to do so because I’m a university student and my work is not directly connected to social media. Therefore, I have the freedom to make such decisions.

This kind of detox helps me to balance my digital life without…


Poison or protection?

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A couple of days ago, I had a conversation with my boyfriend about the COVID-19 vaccines. I told him it is quite unlikely that I’m going to get the vaccine. There are so many rumors around it, and scientists got ready so unbelievably quickly. How was that even possible? Is it safe to vaccinate ourselves at all? What about the long-term side effects?

Still, I’d love to get back to normal as soon as possible without endangering anyone. …

Eszter Brhlik

I write about Sex, Philosophy, and well-being-centered Personal Growth. I’m a walking contradiction with a cheap sense of humor. Let’s talk: eszterbrh@gmail.com

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