Well, I have a small son, so I actually make an effort to try to help him have a more fair upbringing. I try to examine the ways men are circumscribed by our culture. You may not agree with some choices I have made, but your insight would be welcome. I was never a boy and it isn’t always obvious to me how his needs aren’t met by society. I am always interested in learning more to be a better parent to him.
And this is also one reason I support #blacklivesmatter. White women are overwhelmingly less likely to experience police brutality. I think that gives me a burden to try to speak out in favor of it, because I have less at stake.
This is something I spend a lot of time thinking about.