4 days agoCreating the Experience We WantI’m at a meetup for healers committed to a mission. It’s part of a larger event I’m in Portland for, over the next week, called World Domination Summit. We’re meeting at a brewery, in a private room. There’s about seven of us in total. Like Jason Bourne, I’ve already started…4 min read
Jun 7Thriving Just Like Everybody Else vs. Thriving Just Like YourselfSteph is a brilliant child heading off to school. When I say Steph is brilliant, I mean that Steph embodies the capacity of Brilliance. The quality of Brilliance is the capacity to think on your feet quickly. It’s the ability Steph has to understand abstractions and variations on a theme…4 min read
May 4How to Free Yourself and The WorldSitting in a courtyard, you notice someone across the way. We’ll call him Frank. Frank is muscular, tattooed, wears a backwards hat and is dressed in a way that shows off his physique. Before Frank has said anything to you, you’ve concluded that he’s aggressive. …4 min read
May 2FREEDOM TO and FREEDOM FROMTo be free as a human being is to have the capacity to be with everything life brings to us. That statement holds the key to your peace, your sense of adventure, your joy, your ease, and of course, your freedom. But in its current form, it’s a little obtuse…3 min read
Apr 19Forcing Yourself Never WorksYesterday, I wrote about secret code phrases for should. Some being “the smart thing to do” or the “healthy thing to do” or “a good idea to do” are all ways of secretly should’ing on ourselves. What you feel you should do isn’t necessarily a problem. Eating healthy is a…3 min read
Apr 18Secret Code Phrases for ShouldHere are some code phrases that subtly replace your desire with what you should do: It’s right to … What will the market allow? It makes sense to… It’s a good thing to do (or, it’ll be good for me to…) It’s a healthy thing to do It’s the best choice to make [for my…3 min read
Apr 12If It’s All Abundant…In a typical transformational conversation, we often begin by looking for a particular tangible result. A tangible result can be anything — it might be making twice as much in your company, feeling twice as much love with your partner, a vacation for a month to some beautiful beach where…4 min read
Apr 11Returning HomeThe process of transformation is one of expansion and contraction. Anytime you go through a transformational process, you release some of your armour. …3 min read
Apr 7Empowered ResignationWhen I first started getting coached, a lot of the conversations I brought to my coach were about optimizing within the existing rules I saw around me. I saw that the market was willing to let a coach charge X amount of dollars for this kind of work, based on…4 min read
