Evita Lavitaloca SawyersUnconditional LoveThis came from a conversation I had with my brilliant friend Chelsea.Jan 10, 20211Jan 10, 20211
Evita Lavitaloca SawyersLast night, I had sex. With myself.Some time ago, I attended an event for women wishing to reconnect to their sensuality. The facilitator discussed her self-pleasure…Nov 16, 2020Nov 16, 2020
Evita Lavitaloca SawyersPolyamory Love in the Time of COVID-19Now with most states on lockdown due to social distancing guidelines, nested partners are probably having to interact in ways with their…Apr 9, 2020Apr 9, 2020
Evita Lavitaloca SawyersThrough the Polyamorous Looking GlassAsk any group of polyamorous people what the prime benefit of polyamory is and you’ll get a variety of answers. More love, freedom…Mar 29, 2020Mar 29, 2020
Evita Lavitaloca SawyersLongevity Isn’t the ONLY Measure of Relationship Success: A Personal StoryI met one of my former partners at a meetup for burners at a local bar. I had been curious about Burning Man for a long time and was…Mar 23, 2020Mar 23, 2020
Evita Lavitaloca SawyersinOur Sensual SelvesDiscovering New Insecurities: A Personal Polyamory StoryMy partner and I are in a polyamory dating group on Facebook. One day, someone made a post asking the group members to list which degrees…Mar 19, 2020Mar 19, 2020
Evita Lavitaloca SawyersinOur Sensual SelvesPerforming Bisexuality, A StoryThere’s a heartache when bisexual women encounter straight women pretending to be bi.Mar 17, 2020Mar 17, 2020
Evita Lavitaloca SawyersI’m going to post my tried-and-true method (FOR ME) of dealing with my own jealousies in Polyamory.One: I don’t judge myself for my jealousy, I acknowledge it. It’s just a feeling same like happiness, anger, sadness. I read a book once…Feb 26, 2020Feb 26, 2020
Evita Lavitaloca SawyersA personal dating story:I met a new transgender person today. It wasn’t a “date” but we did meet on OkCupid. We just sat by the marina and smoked and talked in the…Feb 8, 2020Feb 8, 2020
Evita Lavitaloca SawyersI posted this a few days ago as a Facebook status:“Been having some interesting reflections on my gender identity. Someone recently asked me what my pronouns were and they have been…Feb 8, 2020Feb 8, 2020
