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Stop Trying to Read Minds — Here’s Why Actions Reveal the Real Truth

Ewho Ruth
3 min readNov 9, 2024
Stop Trying to Read Minds — Here’s Why Actions Reveal the Real Truth

In a world obsessed with trying to decode people’s minds, we often find ourselves playing detective, overanalyzing words, gestures, and glances. Yet, there’s a timeless truth that can save us a lot of heartache

Actions reveal the real story.

As Proverbs 23:7 says, “For as he thinketh in his heart, so is he.”

This verse reminds us that while words can deceive, actions rarely do.

Stop Trying to Read Minds — Here’s Why Actions Reveal the Real Truth

Someone might paint a picture with their words, but their true colors come out in what they do, not what they say.

I’ve always wanted people to say things outright, to give me confirmation in my relationships.

I used to look for constant verbal reassurances, hoping to decode every nuance of communication. But over time, I’ve learned a crucial lesson

Actions speak louder than words. Instead of trying to read minds or analyze what was left unsaid, I’ve realized that actions are the truest reflection of someone’s intentions.

Imagine the energy we waste dissecting every word, every look.

How many times have we tried to interpret someone’s “real” intentions, only to find the truth was simpler than we thought?

Instead of reading into every word, watch their actions. That’s where the truth lives.

So next time you’re trying to “figure someone out,” let their behavior do the talking. In the end, the people around us are always telling us who they are — no mind-reading required.

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