Dream Bankruptcy: Navigating A Path to Resilience & Growth

Losing sight of the purpose could be a sign to step back and re-establish a path towards fresh development and purpose.

Faiq Chong
3 min readJan 12, 2024

Dream bankruptcy is more than just a feeling that our dreams may not come true. It’s a deep emotional struggle that begins when our initial excitement and drive to succeed fade away, leaving us with a sense of emptiness.

Having been through dream bankruptcy myself, I know what it’s like to lose sight of the purpose and the fear of losing the dreams. Whether you’re just starting out on your career journey or you’ve been pursuing your dreams for years, the fear of dream bankruptcy lingers.

Dream Bankruptcy Leads to A New Beginning

Falling into a state of dream bankruptcy could mark a turning point in our lives, ushering in a new beginning on the rejuvenating path of recalibration. Setbacks transform into stepping stones, fostering newfound purpose and opportunities for growth and fulfilment.

Dream bankruptcy is the first step toward self-discovery and liberation. Dream bankruptcy is a complex emotional rollercoaster that is tied to our dreams.

It is is often caused by unrealistic expectations, paralyzing fears of failure, external pressures, and striving for perfection. When the initial spark dies, it leaves a big hole.

Read this earlier article written by me on understanding the causes of experiencing dream bankruptcy:

It’s Time to Break Free & Pursuing Liberation

Now that we’ve gone through the gut-wrenching experience of dream bankruptcy, it’s time freeing ourselves ourselves with strategies that go beyond advice. Beginning this journey of self-renewal entails not just identifying the emotional landscape but also actively navigating it with a toolset developed for resilience.

These strategies aren’t just suggestions; they serve as guiding beacons, illuminating the route to recovering a sense of purpose and reigniting the flame of desire. It is also can be tools that help us heal and discover ourselves, as well as come out stronger on the other side. Each strategy acts as a guide, not only helping us overcome obstacles but also ensuring that we come out of this experience feeling stronger and more self-assured. It is critical to learn the concrete techniques that pave the path to renewal and self-discovery.

Now, breaking free from this state involves practical strategies:

  • Accepting Truth with Knowledge: Recognizing the evolving nature of dreams requires a deep understanding. Embrace the truth about how aspirations change over time, allowing for wise adjustments to our path.
  • Letting Go: Liberation from the trap of our projections onto a seemingly certain future, which is, in reality, filled with uncertainties, is a powerful way to overcome dream bankruptcy. Appreciate the fluidity of life and dreams by intentionally choosing to accept the beauty of impermanence as a source of freedom.
  • Diversifying Identity: Accepting many aspects of oneself, as Danish existentialist philosopher, Soren Kierkegaard, helps to broaden our perspective and enhance resilience. Embracing multiple facets of our identity by pursuing hobbies beyond the unattainable dream.
  • Reconnecting with Meaning: When it comes to the term meaning, almost all existentialist philosophers say that meaning is generated by our choices. Rediscover the inherent meaning that once ignites our desires and realign our goals with ideals that transcend external validations.

Discovering dream bankruptcy is the first step to finding a way to self-discover and liberate ourselves.

When we use these practical strategies for self-empowerment, think of each step as an act of self-discovery. These tools are more than just suggestions; they are the building blocks for a renewed sense of purpose and power. When we incorporate these strategies into our post-dream bankruptcy process, we’re setting the stage for a life-changing experience. We will emerge not just unscathed, but empowered and ready to take on the next chapter in our life.

Read this next article written by me on exploring the psychological relationship between a person’s identity (self) and their aspirations (dreams) and its relation with dream bankruptcy:

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Faiq Chong
Faiq Chong

Written by Faiq Chong

I share values and explore diverse topics (especially on the human condition).