How To Feel Sexy

Faith Ellis
2 min readDec 8, 2017

Female or male, we all have a desire to be desired. Whether it’s to turn someone else on, or turn ourselves on. It’s not always about another person, and it doesn’t have to be. You can feel sexy for yourself too, and here’s how!

Take a bath. Get the water hot, add in some scented bubbles, light some candles. Watch yourself as you undress slowly, the mirror beginning to fog up from the heat of the water. Then, slip into that delightful bath, bathe yourself sensually, pretending to be in front of your lover.

Dress up nice. We tend to dress up, pay better attention to our makeup and spend more time on our hair when we are going out with someone else. For a change, do this just for you. Find a pretty dress in your closet, spend time on your hair and makeup, and go about your day around the house. Better yet, take this look to run errands. Although you did it for yourself, you can share how great you look with the world, too.

Read a sexy book. Some people are visual, others are creative and can set the scene in their mind, acting out each one’s part. Pick up a good romance book and set your stage. Be the damsel in distress, taken by a handsome brute. As much as she tries to hate him, she can’t get past the wondering of what it’d be like to have his rippling muscles caressing her skin. The right book can definitely put you in the right mood and have you feeling sexy and squirming for more.

Sip some wine. Nothing gets you feeling warm and loose as quickly as red wine can. Indulge in a glass with a piece of…

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Faith Ellis

Faith is a kettlebell coach and founder of The KettleBelle based out of Burlington, NC. Find her at www.TheKettleBelle.com or @theKettlebelle on Instagram.