Emily, I appreciated how you addressed the topic of rape. It was interesting how you brought to light that rape brings emotional pain to its victims from someone who already had some underlining emotional pain or dysfunction. Sex is a way of cherishing someone and showing them a deep level of love. That is, God designed sex as an intimate gift between a man and his wife within the context of marriage. Sex is not to be used to harm or dominate as in the action of rape. Rape is an expression of power, control, or a combination of selfish desires. However, whether rape or not, sex can be harmful when it is not done in a way God designed. Meaning, even if both individuals consent to the act, if it is not expressed in a godly fashion, it has the potential of leaving someone with emotional scars and regrets. More importantly, sex never leaves one satisfied for a long period of time. You are right, as Christians we should be more open to coming along side those who struggle with sexual pain or urges so that the can experience freedom, not harm to themselves or others. Thanks for sharing.