Fajar Rehman
Jul 28, 2017 · 2 min read

WINNING THE HEARTS BY PAYING ATTENTION:

Hello Every one!

Writing blog on this topic was very difficult for me, not in a sense that I have no guts for blog writing, difficult because I am quite confused that whether I am interested or interesting.Actually I am not interesting personality according to my opinion, because I never tried to expose my self, my liking, disliking to anyone at any place.I am a kind of person who remains silent in most of the situation and silently observes everything.Observation is like a hobby for me, I read the faces, Read the movements, read the expressions of people around me and make my own perceptions, because of this habit most of the people think that I’m proudy or I am not interested in them, but in reality I am interested. Critical situation na…!

Let’s come to the point, when I started my activity for completing the project 1.I make contact with my friends, ask my family about their selves and text everyone in my contact list by asking same kind of questions like how are u, what’s going on, where are you busy now a days, what’s new in life and bla bla bla…!

I wondered that how the things and incidents were passing out around myself and I was unaware from them.e.g. my mother told me that how much she feels alone after passing nana and nano, my sister told me about stress because of exams, my friends told me about their relationships and new internships, jobs they are doing, I came to know about political conditions of country, I came to know about family circumstances, about everything and apart from good or bad responses and news, a feeling of happiness, “a feeling of self respect came, that they people trust me, they people were thirsty for my attention.They were feeling light after talking to me, after sharing with me and I, myself felt good after connecting with them, Ishattered my boundaries and looked into their lives so I realized that why Human beings are called “Social animal”, because “people around us, worth us”.

I learnt that the best way for convincing the other ones that you are an awesome conversational is, to simply shut-up and let the other people talk!

I feel that my relations and friendship became stronger after this activity because they share their happiness, burdens and sorrow with me.For the first time I throw my self at back end and let myself allow to see their life through their eyes, that was an awesome experience. I just Loved it.

Now my hobby will be “be interested” with the addition of “observer” because just listening is not enough,seeing the expressions,movements are also necessary to understand clearly.

    Fajar Rehman

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