I’ve Been Gone for a Minute Now I’m Back at the Jump Off
Orig. Published 1/05/2015
Hello Loves,
It’s been a very very VERY long time since I’ve posted. Having an internship was not a joke! It was one of the most challenging, satisfying and exhilarating experiences I’ve ever had, but more on that later. Now that that chapter of my life has closed, I’m moving forward! I wanted to pick things back up here.
I’ve missed all of you terribly! I’m sure lots of wonderful, and maybe not so wonderful, things have been happening in your lives. I know “the world waits for no man.” Still, I just wanted to come back with a quick word of encouragement. (#motivationmonday is still a thing, right?) I sure hope so, because this next bit comes directly from my heart.
Lovelies,
There are times when it’s hard to be sure of yourself. I am speaking from experience — very recent experience. During adversity, it is especially difficult to see the good in all the bad. In those times, it’s easy to put yourself down. We often turn inward to seek answers as to “Why is this happening to me?” Generally, the response is that there is something wrong with us. We say to ourselves, “I’m not good enough. I’m too this or too that. I can’t…”
I’m here to tell you that all of that is an illusion. Your mind can be easily manipulated by circumstances and your desire to resolve conflict. Sure, everything may not be going according to plan, but does mean you are a terrible person? No. We all have positive attributes and in some cases your best just may not be good enough. In other cases, those around you are preying on your desire to be, and do, good.

I urge you to put your mind’s natural tendency to search for resolution to good use. Instead of dwelling on your missteps, imagine your future. Rework those negative feelings into positive affirmations. Do what you must to stay above the fray. Do not displace your power!
Listen, you deserve a full life regardless of your “shortcomings.” You are worthy, capable, beautiful and powerful. Own that. Hold your head up. Stop apologizing for yourself and grow. You are not perfect — none of us are, but we are capable of growth. Remember, rejection is just redirection. Go boldly into your future, and if you stumble that’s fine. You just have to get back up.
Peace, peace!
‘till next time! 💋