Are we going to say that that genital response means that the person “really” wanted or liked what happened to them, when every single other part of their mental and physical experience was of frozen horror at this traumatic experience? I’m certainly not. Are you?
Everyone Is Lying about the Vaginas
Emily Nagoski

I have nothing to back this up but I suspect this is a huge factor in why women carry guilt around sexual assault — their body enjoyed it and they are unable to differentiate between their physical response and their cognitive mental response.

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