The Problem with Porn is…
D. L. Shields

I like it.

Not that porn (or anything) has a single problematic aspect, but this is definitely one that I don’t see addressed very often, if at all.

I was chatting with a straight friend one day about how, as a woman who sleeps with women, I measure sex in duration, rather than orgasms. Because mutual climax between women is a challenge, my experience usually involves ‘taking turns’, as it were. And sometimes that can be quick and sometimes not, but keeping track of orgasms would be silly.

She was absolutely dumbfounded as it hadn’t occurred to her that sex could be measured in anything but climax (usually his) achieved.

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