An Affair Opens a MarriageOur couples counselor might be dismayed to learn how we’re using the skills he taught us.Dec 2, 20183Dec 2, 20183
Plan for Surviving the Future: Join the ClubSince the election of Donald Trump, my social media news feed has strongly resembled a disturbed hornet’s nest, full of upset and…Nov 28, 2016Nov 28, 2016
Seeking EdenEve offered Adam paternity in exchange for monogamy. And Adam, the fool, accepted. We’re still paying the price of this bad bargain.Nov 4, 2016Nov 4, 2016
Published inBullshit.ISTMonogamy: An Evolution, A Revelation, and an Attempted RevoltRecently, a rather dry, scientific article introduced me to a motive for monogamy in early humans that I could actually relate to. It was…Sep 28, 201611Sep 28, 201611
On Sex, Anthony Weiner, and Treating the Midlife CrisisA few years ago, when my husband was nearing his mid-forties and I was still in my late thirties, we began to have a recurring fight of a…Sep 16, 20161Sep 16, 20161
Why You Won’t Necessarily Marry the Wrong PersonRecently, The New York Times published a wonderfully provocative piece by Alain de Botton, titled “Why You Will Marry the Wrong Person.”…Aug 22, 20161Aug 22, 20161
Why Do We Fall Out of Love?I have reached the age of divorce. It’s a terrible age. Unlike the ages of graduations, weddings, and births which preceded it (and will no…Aug 2, 2016Aug 2, 2016
The Life Changing Magic of Fighting by TextMy husband and I have been together for eighteen years, married for fourteen of those, and consequently we have our share of disagreements…Apr 29, 20161Apr 29, 20161
In Search of Lost LibidoWhen sex is going well between me and my husband, there is very little I can do wrong in his eyes. If the kids stomp on my last frayed…Mar 19, 20163Mar 19, 20163
