Our couples counselor might be dismayed to learn how we’re using the skills he taught us.

Long before I became an unfaithful woman myself, I studied the condition. I read fiction, nonfiction, scientific works, personal narratives, accounts by therapists, and journalistic reports. …

Or, What To Do About #MeToo

In the wake of Weinstein and Louis CK and Franken and the others, in the current reality of Trump, in the flood of #MeToo stories ranging from the uncomfortable to the horrific, a great many injustices which we have all been ignoring for years…

Eve offered Adam paternity in exchange for monogamy. And Adam, the fool, accepted. We’re still paying the price of this bad bargain.

Lately, I’m obsessed with the sex lives of our primitive ancestors. My obsession with prehistoric sex is related to my obsession with the German concept of Zeitgeist. The…

I have reached the age of divorce. It’s a terrible age. Unlike the ages of graduations, weddings, and births which preceded it (and will no doubt follow, not for us but for our children), the age of divorce is not marked by parties. Instead, it is punctuated by long, unhappy…

When sex is going well between me and my husband, there is very little I can do wrong in his eyes. If the kids stomp on my last frayed nerve and I screech at them like a harpy to drive them out of my presence he might say, “Little jerks…

Faye Calloway

Obsessively fascinated by the thornier truths of love, desire, sex and marriage.

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