
Eventually, we have to ask ourselves why in a world of infinite possibilities we are trapping ourselves in what is clearly not right for us, and then we have to wonder if maybe it’s not working because another viable option is available, if only we first became uncomfortable enough to look for it.
When something is not right for us, we know because we get stopped up. We feel dread and anger, which are both signs that we aren’t honoring our internal signals that are telling us something isn’t right. We don’t commit, we don’t perform, we don’t show up. No matter what we might say we want, our actions reveal our honest desires and intents.
When you get to the point of having to let go, it’s not that you’re usually consciously deciding whether to keep that thing or person in your life anymore. It’s more of a process of whether you’re going to stay in denial about the fact that it is already not working.