Thank you so much for this response. I completely agree and for a while I tried to avoid the pain and confusion and I did do some stupid things but I’ve since realized that it only makes things worse. I have healed to some extent and only because I faced what I was going through and what I am still going through. Your comment just reminded me that I still have a long way to go and I want to be at my best and love myself first before I put myself in that situation again.
Thank you Kathy :)