Pardon me, was there a point to this rant? Boorish men and women exist. They do not speak for their half of humanity. They do not define anything.
Is there some official Man-book that must be refuted? If so, direct your mouth foam toward that.
In the meantime, get a life. You need one badly if this is what occupies your mind. Go explore the world, meet new people, build things, and make the world a better place.
That’s what I think real men do. But I don’t speak for them…