The ONE lethal reason——Why do you FAIL over and over again and NEVER have success?

The main cause of failure for a person who has been working hard is never not hard enough.

• Don’t measure a person’s path to success by the degree of effort.
• Accept the result of failure, accept the second result of failure, always have the courage to accept the result of failure
• Failure is common and inevitable, while success is not. It is just a coincidence. Marx said: the inevitable is in the coincidence, and the coincidence is found in the inevitable.

“I’ve worked so hard, why do I still fail?”

“Work from dawn until dusk, why can’t I get what I should earn?”

“Why do other people have what they get, but don’t I?”

Face yourself honestly and ask.

• Are you confident, have you always believed in yourself?
• In the process of taking action and making efforts, have you been in the process of internal conflict and self-denial? If so, for how long?
• When you have chosen to take action or are on the way to take action, are you still having and keeping the idea — “What if I fail this time?”?

Failure is not terrible, the terrible is its root, always. As the saying goes that those in subordinate positions will follow the example set by their superiors. Failure is subordinate and the superior is its root. If we do not address the root of failure, we will always continue mental internal friction and keep failing in an infinite loop. It’s not that you haven’t worked hard enough, or that you’re not diligent enough for others. The biggest reason for a person’s failure has never separated from mental internal friction, self-denial, and lack of belief in oneself.

• After failure, it is most important to reboost yourself and throw mental internal friction the comparison with others in the corner.
• After failure, don’t feel that you have accomplished nothing, don’t feel that you are the worst, don’t feel that you have failed the expectations of those who love you.
• After failure, always keep that in your mind: I believe in myself.

We can read all kinds of interview clips, articles and so forth to learn that in the recent Winter Olympics, and observe the athletes who won, they were the ones who believed in themselves the most. In fact, the pressure they have to face and withstand is much greater than us, ordinary people, more than ten years of day-to-day training, only three medals in one sport, to stand out among the many top athletes in the world, endeavor to squeeze into the top three, and finally win the championship, really more tough and challenging. But they don’t have a way out, they always uphold the belief of “believe in yourself”. They are always believing in themselves, and the only one who believes in themselves the most. You must always have faith in who you are!

In fact, do failure and success really matter? We can only say that they both represent a turning point. Who knows what this turning point brings us. Do you know? Anyway, I don’t know. A certain stage of success point will indeed bring you praise, fame and fortune, but it will also bring you pride and arrogance. But what about failure? Does it necessarily mean being scorned and the bottom of the earth? I do not take that purely. It may be that way, but it may not. The key is yourself. It depends on how you work out the failure, how your own courage to push yourself up, and whether you will start to believe in yourself all the time. The only thing I’m sure of is that life is long, and the universe is big. Don’t be complacent when you succeed once, don’t give up when you fail this time, otherwise a discouraged life is very fatal.

If you are reading this article, I am so thankful for spending your precious time browsing the words I have typed, and I also thankful for myself and my failures allowing me to have this cream to help me better face the future.

Life is like a box of chocolates, you never know what you are going to get. — by Forrest Gump