Jackie Chan’s Advice to Michelle Yeoh: Stay in the Kitchen

Floyd Whaley
4 min readJun 8, 2023

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Michelle Yeoh won the Oscar for best actress for Everything Everywhere All at Once.

Kicking Down the Kitchen Door: How Michelle Yeoh Defied Jackie Chan’s Advice and Shattered Stereotypes.

In the heart of Hong Kong, where the city buzzes with a blend of the traditional and the ultra-modern, I met with Michelle Yeoh early in her career. Yeoh has charted a remarkable journey from a quiet Malaysian town to the bright lights of Hollywood. Her story challenges norms and defies expectations, a narrative underscored by her friendship with one of the giants of the industry, Jackie Chan.

Michelle’s connection with Jackie Chan is both professional and personal, rooted in their early experiences in Hong Kong cinema. Chan, a legend in his own right, was the first person Michelle worked with in the industry. Despite their friendly relationship, Yeoh recalls a time when Chan opined that women should stay in the kitchen rather than engage in on-screen fighting — a stance she clearly and vehemently disagrees with. Michelle, who has always been known for pushing boundaries, joked about kicking Chan’s butt in response to his outdated views.

This exchange with Chan highlights a broader theme in Michelle’s career: challenging the traditional roles and expectations of women in cinema. Her journey and the roles she chooses to portray resonate deeply with the ongoing conversation about gender roles in society.

The rest of her story, as shared during our interview, is a tapestry of resilience, talent, and an unyielding pursuit of excellence. Born in Ipoh, Malaysia, on August 6, 1962, Michelle was introduced to the world of ballet at a young age. A spinal injury dashed her dreams of becoming a ballerina, leading her instead to the Miss Malaysia pageant in 1983, which she won. This victory unexpectedly launched her into the world of acting, starting with a TV commercial alongside Jackie Chan, and later leading to a flourishing career in Hong Kong cinema.

By 1997, Michelle Yeoh had become a household name in the West through her role in the James Bond film, “Tomorrow Never Dies”, and further cemented her global reputation with “Crouching Tiger, Hidden Dragon” in 2000. At the time of our interview, she had just completed “The Touch”, marking her debut as both a producer and an actor. Her phenomenal journey reached a new zenith on March 12, 2023, when she became the first Asian actress to win an Academy Award for Best Actress for her role in “Everything Everywhere All at Once”.

Michelle’s approach to her craft, particularly in action sequences, is characterized by a blend of realism and discipline — attributes she attributes to her ballet training. Despite the physical demands and risks associated with performing her own stunts, she remains committed to the authenticity they bring to her roles.

Her path from beauty queen to martial arts icon is unique. A chance encounter in Hong Kong led to an impromptu film contract, veering her away from a planned career in dance to the unpredictable world of film. In discussing her roles, Michelle emphasizes the balance between action and drama, a belief system that played a crucial role in the success of “Crouching Tiger, Hidden Dragon”.

Reflecting on the evolving landscape of Asian cinema, Michelle remains optimistic. She acknowledges the pioneering role of “Crouching Tiger” in changing global perceptions of Asian films and encourages filmmakers from her region to continue pushing the envelope. Her direct, outspoken nature contrasts sharply with her on-screen roles, revealing a multifaceted personality.

On the cultural front, Michelle notes the evolution of American society’s understanding of Asia since her first visit to the States in 1994. As a producer, she doesn’t see her gender as an impediment to securing financial backing. However, she acknowledges the ongoing challenge of finding strong, substantive roles for women in acting.

Michelle’s reflections on her childhood in Malaysia and her ethnic minority background offer insights into her identity. She speaks of Ipoh with affection and sees her background as an asset in Hollywood, contributing to her unique appeal. She expresses a desire to bring stories from her homeland to the global stage, emphasizing the wealth of narratives that remain untold.

Michelle Yeoh’s story, from a ballerina in Malaysia to an award-winning actress and producer in Hollywood, is not just a tale of crossing geographical boundaries. It’s a narrative about shattering cultural and artistic barriers, a journey marked by resilience, talent, and a relentless pursuit of excellence.

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Floyd Whaley

Writer. Editor. Southeast Asia and points beyond. Words in The New York Times, Reuters, Los Angeles Times and others.