I think it’s a reasonable request, but not more.
Can we have the name, please? → No, I’d rather keep it→ OK, sorry to have bothered you
would have been a reasonable way to do this. Not the way it actually went:
Can we please have the name? Btw. if you say no, we’ll have it anyway. But we’re nice people ☺ → No you’re not. And I’ll keep the name → OK, then we’ll escalate and bully NPM to give it to use by threatening them