Winning and Losing (a letter to my son…) Do your best to have a positive attitude and be happy whether you win or lose. Be happy because you have an opportunity to play, and are playing this game of life. Enjoy the game, enjoy the process. Take joy in the fact you can learn, practice, implement, adapt, execute and enjoy. Enjoy it and feel the ups and downs. Feel everything. There’s an old and often overused saying, “It’s not about whether you win or lose, it’s how you play the game.” But it really is. Life is about playing, and how you play.