[Article] → How to Know if Someone is Meant to Be in Your Life

Fernando Aguilar
Jan 22, 2018 · 3 min read

Are you still scratching your head wondering if someone’s meant to be in your life or not?

In order to know if someone is meant to be with us, we need to be aware of our feelings surrounding that person. There are sacred messages that tell if someone’s meant to be in your life.

We all have this feeling of unconformity facing times where things appear random.

These are the moments that define us, and we need strength to grow from the lessons which are being presented again and again. I mean, it’s not very easy to realize all the wisdom available to us, but if we try hard enough, we can go from a position of inferiority to one which is confident and empowering.

Love is the best way to take us to the next level.

Sometimes we get so caught up in our own emotions that we do not perceive the lack of self-love. It’s important to notice that maybe it’s only by filling our own cup first that we become able to fill other people’s cups.

Some days we are totally sure that people are meant to be there. While in other days, we are definitely in doubt.

There are also those people that we don’t even know what are they are doing around.This is hot and cold, yin and yang.

I was never sure along my journey, but I realize that if we both serve the same value systems, then the person is meant to be there.


Is that simple?

Yes! Look for the secret message, which is the values important to both.

Look also for reciprocity. If there is respect, there is a relationship.

This is when it’s always give and take, not just take take take…

I see people just taking all the time. It’s important to acknowledge the fulfillment of also giving to others. If you are with someone and there is a lot of reciprocity in the relationship, you feel respected, loved and cared, then that person is meant to be in your life.

I mean. These are not my words, but it’s easy to keep an eye on it.
If sometimes people cheer for you, keep them around, you might need them.

I know that if someone’s making a big effort to be in our lives, let them in. Because people should choose to be there, and you should choose to be here.

Those are secret messages, how it works always comes down to your comfort level around people.

If you can be yourself 100%, then just embrace how lucky you are to finding a frequency match to you.

And when you find it, then just enjoy, for enjoyment is the true nature of a water relationship.


Thanks For Reading ❤

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Fernando Aguilar

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