Francesca Anderssen
Sep 3, 2018 · 1 min read

mindblowing sex happens in the mind

the body gets bored, the mind never does, the mind always seeks more if the creativity is there to allow it.

expecting the physical thrusting of penetrative fucking to somehow build itself into a life enhancing experience is futile — no wonder the lady gets bored.

inside the lady’s head is where the action is.

it’s up to the man to find his way in there; not all men can do it, it takes a little time and patience, but the way is there if he wants to look for it.

Once he knows the way in, and the lady welcomes him in, she can orgasm with just a look, a touch or even by being told to.

when she reaches that stage, her orgasm is certainly no longer hers. She has given control of it to her lover. Willingly and eagerly.

this might help

Francesca Anderssen

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You’ll enjoy my BDSM novel Need http://www.amazon.com/dp/B00S1WNXJ4 and my book of 101 kinky poems http://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/B00VU4CPCG/

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