We are human. You have the perspective now of being in a different place in your life and see things differently now. Not one of us can judge you because we are not you. Like Maya says “when you know better, you do better.” It is a gift to be able to share this insight with young women who may be in the same situation as you now, it is difficult in tech for women. Your ability to be authentic and share your experience will help someone. It has been a gift and I for one applaud you for having the courage to share. It is the shame in silence that binds us and your sharing it has freed you. Feel no shame for being a human who was flawed and made what you now realize was a mistake. I for one do not judge you. Be kind to yourself now and go be an amazing mom!