I’m a fat gay man and I know that fat girls get a lot more flack than we fat boys do. Fat people have the same physical and emotional needs as other people. Don’t be afraid to advertise on dating sites. Don’t be afraid to invite a guy out on a date, because one day you will meet the man, who thinks that you’re the most beautiful woman in the world. Mother Nature has been very kind in that regard — kinder than the fashion industry has been. No matter our appearance and personality, everyone is attractive for someone. Think positive and be positive; and people will see the beauty in you. Many of us don’t have much choice about being fat but we can make the choice to be “fat and happy”.