Okay. But there’s sometimes the sad case —wrong “Girl Wanted” vibes? — where the scumbag option seemed the only one, where the only girls who sought him out had “Screw me figuratively also” on their T-shirts.
Nearly as sad: My being momentarily short the $5 member’s fee.
When a often-respected company is too self-conscious to flat-out give “Not good enough” as their excuse for firing you/him/her or for teasing you/him/her into quitting, but comes up with loads of self-contradictory minor complaints as a rationale . . . Makes one wonder.
Re: “Not Rape But Might as Well Be”
One-sided expectations (with “self-centered” and “unrealistic” implied) apparently won’t work anymore. Suggest Antioch College republish its mocked but useful Step-by-step Specifications for Dating, with dotted lines where both parties sign.