I’m a big fan of the secret. As a director, I give actors a secret to motivate them. Something that none of the other actors know about either their character or another character.
I’ve always thought that there was another class of secret called, “the lovers’ secret”. You know. Those things that only the two of you share.
I loved your article. And you’re right about the secret to a successful marriage. It should be a secret. Those secrets are the things that only the two of you share. My guess is that if you really got couples to open up about their secrets to successful marriage, they would be as different as snowflakes.
And with that, I must go.
My wife is yelling at me to take out the garbage.
No secret there. The whole neighborhood can hear her.