Why we something we wait or we demand from others people ?

Before how to begin talk about waiting , let’s stop a little on the topic “ separation “.

Separation is _ department child from parents ( physical — when we not we live on the one territories with parents , not we go to visit them each day ; moral / emotional — when we not trying justify expectations parents , at us No resentment and feelings guilt , we Can uphold my point vision ; financial — when we financially independent from parents ).

Separation allows man become host his life , free her dispose and receive from her satisfaction . In progress separation human studies line up their borders .

Absence separation is transferred to partnership relationship : either we not Can build relations in general , because what “ me needed husband who looks like on the dad “/ “ me need wife such the same as mom “ ; “ my mom not Like my guy that’s why I don’t I’ll be with him “ or we see in partner “ dad / mom “ then _ there is building relations from a position child initially , something we wait or we demand from him . On the background this accumulate grievances ( unjustified waiting ), tension , occur conflicts .

Here important realize : “I am an adult , holistic personality . to me nobody nothing not should , even my parents and partner . I myself / myself capable / of do my…