Lawrence Le BlancJun 11, 20152 min read
The 23 Rules of Happiness:
Derived from the book “Hector & The Search For Happiness”
A psychiatrist living in London was feeling stagnant. He had the perfect job, perfect wife, and perfect home — or so he thought. He decided the same routine he practiced to obtain the perfect life around him was also restricting his happiness. After an implosion at work he decided it was time travel the world. His motivation? To research the things that made people happy. He wanted to know if he could be happy too. After stopping in China, Africa, Tibet, & the United States he returned home with a list of key learnings you can read below:


- Making comparisons can spoil your happiness
- Happiness often comes when least expected
- Many people only see happiness in their future
- Many people think happiness comes from having more power or more money
- Sometimes happiness is not knowing the whole story
- Happiness is a long walk in beautiful, unfamiliar mountains
- It’s a mistake to think that happiness is the goal
- Happiness is being with the people you love; unhappiness is being separated from the people you love
- Happiness is knowing that your family lacks for nothing
- Happiness is doing a job you love
- Happiness is having a home and a garden of your own
- It’s harder to be happy in a country run by bad people
- Happiness is feeling useful to others
- Happiness is to be loved for exactly who you are (People are kinder to a child who smiles)
- Happiness comes when you feel truly alive
- Happiness is knowing how to celebrate
- Happiness is caring about the happiness of those you love
- Happiness is not attaching too much importance to what other people think
- The sun and the sea make everybody happy
- Happiness is a certain way of seeing things
- Rivalry poisons happiness
- Women care more than men about making others happy
- Happiness means making sure that those around you are happy
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