May 6Untethered but still realCW: Cancer, death (but not from the cancer) My mother-in-law was a paper hoarder. She had difficulty identifying what was important, so she kept everything. …Death2 min read
Apr 17, 2020Holding the light amidst the chaosIt’s funny, sometimes, the things we remember, snapshot moments that retain their clarity even as all else becomes fuzzy with time. I remember sitting in Mr. Hollis’s social studies class as the secretary announced over the loudspeaker that President Reagan had been shot. I remember checking my email before going…Life4 min read
Mar 28, 2020The Results of CommitmentIt’s 1999. People are freaking out because computer systems have been designed to record the year based on its last two digits, and once the year 2000 rolls around, the world’s banking systems are going to collapse and civilization will end. It’s January 1st, 2000. The banks kept on banking…Coronavirus4 min read
Aug 22, 2018Evolving the ImposterImposter Syndrome is the result of placing too much weight on a perceived distance between where you are and where you think you “should” be. I speak in terms of distance because I like to think of Life as a journey of exploration and growth. While having ambition and wanting…Imposter Syndrome2 min read
Dec 15, 2016The Synergy of Checks and BalanceAt its best, Progressivism is visionary. It inspires us to look beyond what has been and reach for new ideas of what else might be possible. At its best, Conservatism values what has been. It cherishes the strength of what has been built, brick by brick, by countless generations. …Politics2 min read
Nov 9, 2016What can I *do*?Sometimes the problems of the world seem overwhelming. If I think about them too much, all I want to do is curl up in a ball, rock back and forth, and loudly hum random songs to myself to block it all out. Not terribly efficient, that. :P Instead, I think…Social Impact3 min read
Jul 10, 2016Why #AllLivesMatter is a problemI have some friends who are honestly and sincerely confused about why #AllLivesMatter is considered “racist.” The truth is that all lives do matter. Each life is a sacred gift deserving of love and respect. The problem isn’t the phrase. It’s the context. Imagine I’ve just lost someone I loved…Black Lives Matter2 min read
Jun 13, 2016But it’s not my fault! I didn’t do that!He was furious. I can’t even remember what I’d said to set him off, but my husband was NOT happy. I do remember being startled, then defensive at his reaction. I tried to tell him that I hadn’t done what he accused me of, but the more I tried to…Love4 min read
May 27, 2016How can we be happy when there is so much pain in the world?I know a lot of people who struggle to reconcile the philosophy that they should “think positive” and “you are what you think, so focus on things that make you feel good” with the fact that we are surrounded by so much evidence that all is NOT right with our…Saving The World3 min read
Mar 28, 2016The REAL Reason You Don’t Need to “Clear Your Blocks.”Do you ever want something really, really badly, like more money, love, or success, but you tighten up whenever you think about it? Does it feel like something inside you is preventing you from getting it? …Life Lessons5 min read