The #1 question to ask yourself before investing in someone
The Angry Therapist

And you believe that you might have the insight to know where this relationship will lead because you understand him/her and yourself so well that the future is predictable?

Come on!, have some faith in providence and the goodness of others. Without a degree of trust and faith in the “person in question” you’ll likely not get anywhere at all. The relationship will develop-or it won’t.