Love can nourish an already emotionally healthy person, but it can’t satisfy our emotional needs or do the emotional work we must do alone.
Love isn’t going to fix us
Kris Gage

But emotional engagement with a loving other is the experience that enables us to be healthy,self assured persons. Ideally this begins at birth. But if it is only imperfectly accomplished,please don’t imply that true,healing,satisfying love is forever out of reach because we must first accomplish a transformation of self- a transformation which is impossible without the presence of love. Love needs to be given to us before we can understand what it is.

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