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Sep 5 · 4 min read

“The tongue of man is a twisty thing. There are plenty of words there of every kind.” — Homer

Monday was the five-year anniversary of the publication of More Than Two: A Practical Guide to Polyamory, and it seemed an appropriate occasion to attempt to address a question we keep getting: Is it a good book? Should we still use it? Or should we throw it away?

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  • Treat conclusions drawn from Franklin’s stories as suspect. Really question them.
  • Don’t use ANY book as your polyamory manual. Read more than one book. Use them to generate questions for yourselves about what you want.
  • Discuss things you aren’t sure about with other poly people. You’ll get wide ranging advice — but the collective group is wiser than any one voice on things it has experience with.

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