Where is she saying that men should fit a cookie-cutter mold?
Robert van Tongeren
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She’s suggesting that she is judged differently than men. That men should judge her the same as they judge other men. Perhaps I should have challenged her differently.

My point was that people judge people. Men may judge men by a different standard than they judge women, but women judge women by a different standard than they judge men. We all judge each other by different standards based upon presumed characteristics we identify.

Ultimately, what I observe as her complaining about being male judgement of her because she is a female is more of a common judgement of the introspective and reserved character-type. Many of the complaints she is making are complaints that can be made by males and females, of both males and females. Yet, she strictly addresses these complaints towards men.

Make more sense?