well, it actually is true that you’re not normal. but being normal doesn’t mean you should be respected either. getting respect is about being respectable and that’s it.
statistically the vast majority of women become very depressed in old age if they had no children. hashtag not all, whatever, you’re free to choose.
however, the ratio is so high that it is negligent and harmful to tell women not to give it any concern. at least if you don’t support women being incredibly depressed in old age. there’s only a limited time window for young ladies to make up their minds, and once that boat sails if they’re sad there is nothing they can do about it.
conversely kids grow up and eventually leave lol