Is her family dysfunctional? I’m asking because mine is and I tend to try to keep them at arm’s length, or honestly there’s a bunch that I just cut out of my life. My husband’s family is super close, loving, ect ect. And sometimes I’m bad at reaching out / including them in stuff whatever. It’s not because I don’t like them I’m just used to thinking that family is nuts so it’s best in small doses.