I dont think what she said is horrible …. life should be understood that it will not all be joy all the time, hell its pain 90 or so % of the time, we choose to load our lives with stress that has nothing to do with us, the load that God gives is relative to what we think is loading us mentally. You as an individual, not God , load yourself down until you feel crushed. To overcome this we need to understand a better way of evaluating our lives and the events in it and learn to apply the “7 C’s” to our burdens.
If I didn’t Cause it, then, I can’t Cure it and I can’t Control it.I can help Care for myself by Communicating my feelings, making healthy choices, and by Celebrating myself.