Great point. Let’s just say instead that they are ‘uneducated’ or ‘brainwashed’.
Reach out to bigots? Try to understand irrational fear and anger? Chamberlain ‘reached out’ to Hitler and you know how that ended.
Time for reaching out is past. It’s time to resist. There is one side that’s right and one side that is wrong. It’s not complicated at all, actually. Intelligent people recognise that.