I’m with Sheldon on this, 100%. But I’m 53 and a dad. Obsessing about sex is, I think, something young people — and maybe only young women. I’ve simply never known any men who were really the least bit interested in thinking, much less talking about, their sexual ‘feelings’. They like a girl/woman; they want to have sex with her. If it happens, that’s great. If not, too bad. Men are really not complicated at all.