Oh, good. I was thinking the same thing but I’m a coward and didn’t want to be the first to post a hater contrarian view. I get where the letter is supposed to be going. I get all that, but so much female victimhood.

And I say that as a dad of an adult daughter. I am absolutely convinced she was the one hunting and copping the feels. (Don’t deny it M.)

Absolutely nothing wrong with that as I encouraged her from day one to define exactly what she wants and go get it. Sure, I knew that some of that stuff she wanted was maybe gonna get a raised eyebrow here and there from the gaggle of prudes she finds herself surrounded by, but she is a human being with the complete set of needs and urges that entails. I just hope she was also honorable and never dumped anyone by text or ghost what didn’t deserve it.