It is okay to point out the bad things he did while also making it clear that he has a very serious problem that we should be compassionate about.
The Lessons I Learned From The Anthony Weiner Story
Alex Balk

Who says this is actually a problem? He’s living his life the way he wants. Sure, he hits up against some bumpers that we all kind of Puritanically agreed to erect on his life with his permission, but he’s loving his impulses. If more people did that and we were all “nbd” maybe fewer people would be having “problems.”