Hi Nathan, I wish I have the answer to this. For me I’m like you trying to steal time a bit from here and there. I guess it is tough for wife to understand. I know of fellow crossdresssers that have meetup once a while. For me I find a bit of solace in crossplaying, a slightly more acceptable form of cross dressing. It is not easy but try to have conversation with you wife. I am struggling in that too. But I do promise her I will always stay faithful to her just in case her imagination runs wild.