I’m a crossdresser but I’m not a pervert
No this is not an oxymoronic statement. I’m a crossdresser, a guy who like to dress like a girl. However, I’m not a pervert.
Yes I have my own bras
But I’m still not a pervert. I wear bras whenever I’m in girl mode. I don’t wear it when I’m back to my guy mode. No, I don’t wear it under my business suit. No, I don’t derive sexual gratification from wearing bras. No I don’t go around stealing people’s bras. Hey I bought them with my own hard-earned money mind you. No I don’t put on bras when having sex. I know some does out of sexual perversion but I’m not one of them. Why do girls wear bras? To protect their modesty, for comfort, for looking good especially with the push-up bras. So why do I wear bras? Because I look bad with a flat chest wearing my favourite dress(es). I need the extra ‘perks’ to help me achieve a better look. Yes, it is that simple.
Yes I like to dress up in girlish dress
Yet I’m not a paedophile. It’s a fashion preference. If girls can wear pants, why can’t guy wear dresses? Cast away your prehistoric notion of associating pants with power and dress with feminity or weakness. It is simply a preference. I think girl’s clothes are 100 times better than guy clothes which are so boring to me. Imagine this: Your sister told you she like a piece of dress, bought it online and wear it to your birthday party. Sounds normal? Yes because it is. Now change your sister to your brother or any guy friend. Is that still normal? Don’t think so? Then I would challenge you why? I know, guys are not suppose to like girly stuff unless they are gay. Yup, I bet you I’m straighter than any of you guys out there. Of course, I’m not speaking for all. But majority of crossdressers are straight.
I’m a a pervert for just wearing girl’s clothes? I don’t think so. I didn’t buy these dresses from some young girls and smell the dresses to bed every night. That I would argue is some weird perverse fetish. I don’t wear them to derive sexual pleasure but as a form of self expression. I like female clothing. As simple as that. Anyone who says a guy dressing up is a pervert maybe either 1) stereotyping all crossdresser 2) have out-of-the-world perverse imagination of what a crossdresser does alone at night. In this case, I think it is the person who has a perverse mind.
Yes I wear a wigs
I don’t have the luxury of keeping my own long hair so I wear wigs. I have a few of them. No, I’m no drag queen. Why do I wear a wig? It’s just part of my dressing up. I don’t collect wigs or smell them as some part of weird sexual fetish. I just want to look good and wigs help me with that. No I don’t think there is such a thing as wig fetish (or maybe there is…). Whatever it is, if you want to crossdress well, get a wig.
My goal of crossdress
I must be a pervert cause ‘normal’ guy don’t crossdress. Right. There are tons of rapists and molesters out there. If they are deemed normal, it would really be morally wrong. I crossdress or ‘trap’ as I prefer to call it, simply because I want to look good. Of course, if I can be passable, or look close to a female counterpart, I would consider myself to be successful. I don’t trap to look like a woman with beard. I trap to look beautiful. Just like how I like to draw beautiful things and people. Don’t think too much into it. The ‘pervert’ in your mind is as much as what you are thinking in your mind. And the fact that you thought of such things, it means your mind must be of certain level of sickness. Hence, don’t judge.
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