Why Some Guys Won’t Take Charge in Bed—No Matter What Their Partner Wants
Tracy Moore

I don’t understand why in the most intimate act, I would be expected to have a different personality than in all other aspects of my life. The last place I would want her to be disingenuous with me is when we are closest. If my partner wants a man who hits her in bed, I’d suggest she finds a man who hits her in the kitchen too or an actor. I’m neither.