Divine Timing and Healing Wounded Chakras

Gina Dalo
Gina Dalo
Nov 3 · 9 min read
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It is 3:11 a.m, on a Sunday, and I am here, writing a blog post about one of the funniest lessons I am learning from spirit. Should I be writing this at 3 in the morning? Not ideal, but I woke up laughing and I just can’t stop thinking about how the lesson is becoming more and more clear!

Spirit can be either fun or cruel when it comes to learning lessons. There is no intention behind how spirit works, it is just in the way we interpret the outer circumstances.

In Arizona — the day I had been booted out to pursue Florida — I had woken up from a rather odd dream, which held one of the biggest lessons/realizations for myself.

The dream had been about this guy I went to high school with. I was not friends with him, we had no mutual friends, but yet I dreamed about him. In the dream, my car kept getting stuck in the oddest places; it got stuck in water, leaves, you name it, it got stuck. Each time the car was full to the brim, as if I was traveling cross-country again, and I was wearing a motorcycle helmet, which was strange! Every time the car got stuck, this guy appeared out of no where and would say things to me like, “you have to remove the old that weighs you down”, and things like that. He would clear the car of anything that no longer served me and poof! It was ready to drive again.

I didn’t quite understand the moral of the story, but when I woke up I decided to see what he was up to on Facebook. He’s out there traveling with his beautiful girlfriend, living life, and funny enough, he drives a motorcycle! I was at a point in my life where I was still traveling, trying to find a place to call “home” for me, had now experienced major financial loss, and I was unable to see past the fact that I could no longer afford things that I had wanted or even needed for that matter.

After about 30 minutes of just jotting down the dream, I felt this lightbulb go off in my head; I didn’t want to move to Florida and make the same mistake as Arizona. I didn’t want to drive out somewhere foreign, force myself to get a boring but high paying job and just go back to accumulating things. The dream, the lesson he shared, was that I had an unhealthy attachment to outcomes and materialistic possessions that caused me to make the decisions for the wrong reasons. My pursuit for financial independence was driven purely to allow myself to afford things to accumulate and root myself in long leases so I could have absolute stability. Although that is practically the ideal way of living — rent, buy furniture, buy things you want, etc — I didn’t want to accumulate anymore to just be weighed down by such unimportant things.

I hadn’t planned on moving that exact day when I was given that dream, but it just so happened that outside circumstances literally forced the move to be that day. But before I knew it, all these bugs started getting into the apartment out of no where. My fear to move abruptly from Arizona to Florida was completely bypassed by the time i noticed all these rando bugs pouring out of what seemed to be thin air. That was it, I was ready to take a leap and spirit was saying, run, bitch run. Lol, not in a bad way but practically just, get a move on! Whatever next season Florida held for me, I knew I would pursue the life I wanted not the life society said I had to have.

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Fast forward to two days ago, and here I am having another dream about him. Okay… what does he have to teach me now?

The dream was odd in a sense because it was sexual, but what I interpreted it as was he was trying to show me a huge block in my life. (I literally have no idea why my subconscious, higher-self, spiritual guidance, has chosen this random guy, but for some reason or other, he’s there to show me blocks…)

So in the dream, we had been talking, traveling, and doing other things that I don’t exactly remember. It was at one point we established a connection and decided to pursue this, casually. He seemed unsure of himself, and I wouldn’t stop talking when we initially tried to do anything. Our insecurities were obvious in our pursuit to have a casual fling and while it was wanted, it was extremely awkward. We did not allow ourselves the pleasure in which we seeked.

I woke up and already knew that my spirit was not only craving sexual affection, but it wanted me to move past the shameful blocks that clogged my sacral chakra.

Last night, I met a guy through a mutual friend and we ended up having an oddly quick attraction by the end of the night. Now, the mutual friend had told me that he is someone who doesn’t date, rather he is very upfront with the woman he pursues because he enjoys non-attachment to an outcome or relationship. My initial reaction learning about this friend was, “not for me”. However, his honesty and energy of his spirit had challenged this narrow mindedness I have when it comes to sex.

You see, I am a monogamous type of person and my history with sex is rather underwhelming tied with sexual trauma from my childhood. My mother had exposed me to sex, there was sexual trauma, and this led me to be a very conservative and fearful adult when it comes to sex. A majority of the time, if I wasn’t in a monogamous relationship with someone having sex, then the only way I would sleep with someone was if alcohol was involved.

So here comes this guy, who I had no attraction to at the beginning of the night who then blew me away with his gorgeous energy by the end of the night. It was the first time that I had experienced absolute attraction for someones energy in no regard to their physical appearance. The beautiful part about it was, I knew when he pursued women, it was in no way to womanize them nor to score another lady in bed. He was genuine, up front about his endeavors and very straight forward with what he wants and why. He made me feel beautiful and he was captivated by my life and the reason why I am the person I am today.

Here I am now, writing a blog post at 3 in the morning, so in awe after awaking from sleep from my own giddy laughter. My whole time healing with spirituality, I had forced trying to clear out my chakras and unsure whether if they were fully cleared or not. I came to this funny conclusion that the guy from high school doesn’t just come to teach me a lesson, but he’s come to teach me a lesson about the chakras that are clogged and why. (I thought it was funny too because he has red hair, and the chakras cleared are my roots, and now my sacral; red and orange).

In my first dream in Arizona, he taught me all about how my inability to see past the material world is what’s going to weigh me down. In the second dream, he showed me that my body/spirit craved for sexual attention because it’s natural. I had deprived myself of sex or experienced sex under the influence because I don’t know how to feel comfortable with the subject/act. I don’t know how to allow myself pleasure without the guilt of sin, the guilt of sex needing to be taboo, and I certainly don’t know how to explore without the guilt of my own self-judgement.

He came along to show me where I was holding onto materialism and to let go of wants to move past fear in my root chakra. And here he came back to show me where I am holding guilt and shame from allowing myself pleasure in my sacral chakra.

I woke up laughing because, I just felt giddy about sex all of sudden! I just thought about how important sex is, and how beautiful and passionate it can be with either a total stranger or even in a monogamous relationship. I thought that if I were to have a healthy sex life, it would mean not depriving myself until I found someone to date. What’s more, the guy I just met had said to me, “we manifested each other for a reason”. My god, he was absolutely right. Sneaky Universe…

We are meant to be sexual creatures and there’s no shame in showing our passion, within reason. If the situation is healthy, if you dream about sex here and there but aren’t having any, then it may be a good time to start exploring pleasure in your life!

I think the most important thing to take away from this is that dreams are so powerful with the messages they bring through to us. I suggest that everyone have a dream diary — even if it’s a phone app — and to just write the minute they wake up. Before you argue with me that you can’t remember the dream, I have a hard time too. Go to sleep every night with the intention to remember the dream upon waking up. On days that I don’t remember my dream, I like to note how I felt when I woke up. Did I feel good? Bad? Confused? Was there a song in my head upon waking up? Or how about a saying or thought? There’s so many little aspects that we may push off as coincidence that could have everything to do with what our subconscious is trying to communicate to us.

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I am not exactly sharing this story to explain that I need sex and I declare that now I’m totally gonna get it! No, not at all haha. I am writing this because we all have the power to do incredible healing or inner work to remove blocks. However, it is truly in divine timing that we see the healing has occurred. I think that is the most beautiful part of it all. The Universe is always working with us with whatever we are working on, but it doesn’t give us or aide us to discover the answer until Universe feels we are ready for it.

How long have you been working on your chakra blocks? What do you think blocks each chakra? Are you staying mindful and realizing how the physical world plays apart in your subconscious mind? What stories, visions, or lessons have come through to you in your dreams? Are you paying attention to the signs and signals or are you ignoring them? Where do you feel most vulnerable in your life and how do you think you can change it? Are you mindfully watching for the synchronicities or are you missing the hints being sent to you by the Universe? I would love to know.

One of the coolest things I just realized about spirit is how subtle the signs really are. When we begin to see a reason for everything that manifests in our physical world — even the lizard that scurries past your feet when your thoughts focus on a particular topic — these are little whispers from spirit that are always trying to get our attention.

Whatever you are working on in life, just know that spirit loves you and is always working in your highest and best good. Don’t ever get discouraged about time or progress, it is not about the end results nor how fast you can heal anything needing healing. Universe will walk us through the doors we are ready to walk through when the time is right, not the time we think is right.

Keep doing the work you are doing, keep watching out for the little signs, and please consider starting a dream diary — even the smallest detail could have the biggest impact/insight needing your attention. And for all those who suffer from a blocked root/sacral chakra due to sexual trauma, know that you are absolutely not alone. You are in power of your body, you have the final say so, you are beautiful just the way you are, you are safe, you are here, you are alive, and most importantly, you are free of guilt, you deserve pleasure.

Your Friend, Gina ❤

Gina Dalo

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Gina Dalo

A spiritual awakening blog/diary to bring awareness of the severity and beauty of the process. A psychic intuitive, a supporter, an awakening mess :)

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