PinnedPublished inPrism & PenQueer, Anxious, and Always on High Alert: The Cost of Growing Up DifferentAn Essay on Childhood Hypervigilance and Queer SurvivalMay 334May 334
PinnedPublished inPrism & PenLearning to Show My Pride When Anxiety Says HideThe bravest act I perform each day isn’t loving who I love — it’s choosing visibility when every alarm in my body screams to disappearApr 1719Apr 1719
PinnedPublished inPrism & PenBeyond the Mirror: A Gay Therapist’s Guide to Healing Body ShameA therapist’s raw look at how trauma, not vanity, drives the gay community’s body image crisis — and the path to healingApr 98Apr 98
PinnedPublished inPrism & PenThe Unseen Toll of Navigating Life as a Gay Man: Visible & VulnerableWhen being seen becomes both salvation and danger. Reflections on visibility from someone who’s lived between cultures, identities, and contMar 3120Mar 3120
PinnedPublished inPrism & PenShared LGBTQ+ History as Personal Trauma Requires Innovative TherapyInsights from the therapy room on why many LGBTQ+ people feel broken despite supportive environments.Mar 179Mar 179
Pope Francis Changed Things for LGBTQ+ Catholics. What Happens Now?His death marks the end of an era that reshaped the Church’s relationship with queer CatholicsApr 2611Apr 2611
Published inILLUMINATIONHow Tiny Experiments Change Habits Into Life-Changing BreakthroughsWhy Most People Get Growth Wrong — And What It’s Costing YouApr 7Apr 7
Published inPrism & PenA Gay Therapist Speaks on the Queer Intimacy ParadoxOn breaking free from self-protective patterns when queer people crave but struggle to build deep connectionsMar 258Mar 258
Published inPrism & PenWhy Resilience Culture is Failing LGBTQ+ PeopleThe ‘Just Be Stronger’ resilience movement frequently neglects essential needsMar 1023Mar 1023
Published inPrism & Pen15 Years Hating Myself for Being Gay: What Finally Made Me Feel WorthyThe brutal truth about why hiding didn’t fix my self hatred (and what actually did)Feb 289Feb 289