How to Deal With Such Toxic People

G. Vinilolita
2 min readOct 29, 2019

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Toxic people are very dangerous and also very annoying if it’s around us. Why? Because they’re ruin your mood with they’re attitude. Toxic is Toxic. There must be toxic people all around us, women or men. Toxic people always playing victims. You might not be able to change what they do but you can change what you do with it.

//Toxic people might be prickly, sad, cold or cranky and when you ask if there’s something wrong, the answer will be ‘nothing’, but they’ll give you just enough to let you know that there’s something. So, first thing you have to do with toxic people is stop trying to please them. walk away, you are not responsible for anybody else’s feelings and you shouldn’t have to guess.

//Toxic people good at manipulate. Toxic people have a way of sending out the vibe that you owe them something. They also have a way of taking from you or doing something that hurts you, then maintaining they were doing it all for you. Second thing you have to do with toxic people is pretend that you agree with them.

//Apologise? NO. Toxic people never apologise. They never care what they do to you. They assume all the words that they say are true. So the third thing you have to do with toxic people is don’t argue with them. Because they’ll twist the story, change the way it happened and retell it. So convincingly that they’ll believe their own non-sense.

Pay attention if we are talking with toxic people, because we’ll know that they’re always use non-toxic words with toxic tone.

If you know the characteristic signs of a toxic people, you’ll have a better chance of catching yourself before you tie yourself in double knots trying to please them. I have dealt with enough toxicity in my life to know when it’s best to cut ties.

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