How to Stop Fucking up your relationships

All women are different. This is not about that, it’s about working out and understanding your woman and attuning to her needs. And I can say hand on heart “it just takes some introspection and responsibility for your actions and behaviours.
So how does a unified man hold himself in a successful relationship?
# Trustworthyness
At the top for many reasons. This trait is atop her priorities and it’s more than being truthfull and faithful.
She needs you to be accountable. Your words is very important to her and you must deliver on them no matter what, trusting in you protects her heart and created a safe zone for her to live in. Circumstances are always changing, maybe you over committed on a promise or your word and you’re required to course correct, (communicate this) and be accountable.
Your word makes a difference to her. Men can fall in the trap of saying I’ll take care of it or consider it done to please her in that moment, without the delivery her trust diminishes rapidly. This is serious to the point where she becomes physically and emotionally unattracted to you.
“No exceptions! Deliver on your word”
Regardless of how difficult it may be, you made a verbal commitment and to her heart that’s non negotiable. If you are breaking your word, you are the problem, she is not the solution.
# It’s up to you
You are the man in her life, hold that space and own it, cherish and treasure it, owning yours allows her to meld into her space and live the divine feminine she is, You might just start to see that smile, that beautiful smile that you haven’t seen for a while.
Great relationships are a combination of heart, body, mind and soul and she won’t settle if you’re lacking in any of these areas. Be the man she wishes you can, embrace your masculinity. You love her, “I believe you” its NOT enough! She is worth it, “I’m sure she is” Show her.! Winning her heart is not easily attainable let alone sustainable.
Some ways a unified whole man lives by….
She is not your coach….or mum
Solve your own problems, complaining and moaning is a complete turn off for women, taking ownership is how real men handle life, if you hate your job, change it, if you don’t change it then shut the fuck up, only you can fix you so leave it at the door and start living a wholesome life, playing the victim in any way is giving her a ticket to dismal land.
It doesn’t matter if you were wronged, fix the issue yourself and move on into love, she needs to know you can handle problems when they arise, and believe this, they always arise.
# Break the routine
Drop the complacency, you got one chance in this life brother, if things aren’t going right take action, have a moment with yourself and ask questions, letting go is huge in a unified man’s life. Go out to the forest and scream “I’m not fucking living like this anymore” then get real with yourself, she needs to feel safe with you, when you’ve really decided to make positive change the doors will open because you have now allowed them to. Now you’re accountable, you’re not fucking around any more.
Everything in life and relationships will improve because you are being your authentic you. You’re making smart choices now and you’re all in, you broke the boring routine and now the bank balance improves, the self worth has grown and the way she looks at you has changed, even the sex is better because you’re more alligned with yourself, this is the man she needs in her life.
# Do not try to fix her
This is very easy to do. Listen to her! I mean really listen. If she wants advice or a solution she will ask. Ask her questions, it shows her you heard her issues, this is real support.
Being a man who listens creates a safety net when she is vulnerable, (all women need this at times) remember ALL women are different so maximising your own space and attuning to the way she lives creates a safe haven where real relationships blossom.
Never EVER finish her sentences. A subtle awareness of this is all it takes if you are guilty, or she will tell you. Listen twice as hard as you speak, you have two ears and one mouth for a reason.
# Get alligned with your goals
The man with a plan, not the boy with a toy theory. If something or someone doesn’t take you in the direction to your life purpose “DROP IT”
If you find this hard, then the question many great men ask themselves is this “ What is it I truly want in my life.) Having direction is key to being the man she wants to roll with. There is plenty of empty bar stools with your name on them if you ignore your calling and life’s purpose, it’s not magically going to happen, it takes work and real self analysis to step into this new you who has real purposeful direction.
“it’ll happen one day”
Guess what!! This is one day, “your last day” and tomorrow is your first day. Get with the program of your heart, eat shit for however long it takes and hit your finish lines.
Many great development coaches echo this message! “It’s not the destination that matters it’s who you become on the journey”
When every facet of your life is in tune with your life’s purpose and goals, the man who you become will have your family and friends thinking,What’s got into him? You did brother! You got into you. You lover is going to match you on that every day of the week.
You only live once….You got this.