April 23
I just realized.
It’s been a year since I moved out/away from my ex wife.
Let’s review what I’ve accomplished.
- Concluded wife was not interested in being with me.
- Divorced.
- Met with therapist several times.
- Tried pills to help with depression (wasn’t my thing).
- Began lifting weights at gym.
- Found a nice place to live in Brooklyn.
- Made and enforced boundaries with my crazy parents.
- Overcame some dark stuff.
- Didn’t kill self.
- Relied on friends for emotional support during hard times.
- Quit real estate.
- Started a business.
- Leased a desk at a co-working space in midtown.
- Got back in the dating scene.
- Started cooking healthy meals in bulk, aka Sunday Meal Prep.
- Values, goals, purpose — All set. I know why I exist.
The hardest twelve months of my life, perhaps. But then again it was hard when I was married/engaged. Luckily both that and the recovery didn’t last too long.
I’m fine now. No, actually I’m great. Getting shit done. Can’t wait til I get more shit done.
Looking forward to an awesome summer. Oo-rah.