April 23

I just realized.

It’s been a year since I moved out/away from my ex wife.

Let’s review what I’ve accomplished.

  • Concluded wife was not interested in being with me.
  • Divorced.
  • Met with therapist several times.
  • Tried pills to help with depression (wasn’t my thing).
  • Began lifting weights at gym.
  • Found a nice place to live in Brooklyn.
  • Made and enforced boundaries with my crazy parents.
  • Overcame some dark stuff.
  • Didn’t kill self.
  • Relied on friends for emotional support during hard times.
  • Quit real estate.
  • Started a business.
  • Leased a desk at a co-working space in midtown.
  • Got back in the dating scene.
  • Started cooking healthy meals in bulk, aka Sunday Meal Prep.
  • Values, goals, purpose — All set. I know why I exist.

The hardest twelve months of my life, perhaps. But then again it was hard when I was married/engaged. Luckily both that and the recovery didn’t last too long.

I’m fine now. No, actually I’m great. Getting shit done. Can’t wait til I get more shit done.

Looking forward to an awesome summer. Oo-rah.